Blog Reader With Chronic Cheating Boyfriend Needs Advice

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Hello Mrs Laila hope you're good, well I need advice for a close friend of mine. I will try to make the story brief but it's a true present story. 

My friend Bose met this Nigerian guy Osy and she fell in love (so she thought), they both live here in Philippines. She thought he was a good guy only for her to find out few weeks into the relationship he is the same with other Nigerian guys abroad. They all have
tons of girls (even d one he claims are family members) waiting for them back home promising them love and marriage. 

She found out the first time and he apologized claiming it is because of what his ex-gf's did to him. Fast forward to 2 months later she found out that he still communicating with the girls (both home and abroad) she confronted him and he yelled at her that she has no right cos she's not his wife. 

She left him and moved out of his place and he came back to beg crying like a baby she believed him and moves in with him even though her family were against it. Barely 4 days after she came back, he continued text messages with this girls claiming he has every right to do as he pleases. 

After few weeks she went to spend few days at her friends place, then decided not to go back to her emotionally abused affair, he pleaded like a baby and she accepted to go back only for her to find out that within few days she wasn't around he brought in a supposed friend and they had sex. She almost died remembering that she broke up with her boyfriend in Nigeria cos of Osy. 

After much pleading she accepted him back but said she can't be in the same house with him so she left and they both agreed that she'll visit from time to time. He swore that he is a changed person and she couldn't believe cos the trust was broken, she was trying really hard to build the relationship anytime she visits him all seems well (no more chats with girls) she visited during Christmas and left few days later. 

She came again during valentine and to her greatest surprise found messages of him telling this girls he missed and still loves them (of course he didn't know she'll be smart enough to check his inner folders) the girls sending their nudes to him (i pity some girls sha). 

I can't start typing all the sh*ts that went down within 8-9months of Bose dating this guy. but for 3 consecutive times now she has been willing to quit the dramatic affair. Now this time when she visited for valentine only to find out that what he does is to block this girls from his chat list, use her photo as d.p then when she leaves, he unblock them all. 

She told me that her mind is made up, and the trust has been shattered. But the funny part is that Osy thinks what he did doesn't require her quitting the relationship. The guy swears pants down that he is a changed person. Please advice from Lailans - should she give this guy another chance. 

Please I need Lailans to  imagine she was your daughter or sister seeking for advice
Thanks.

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