Right now in my life, I'm tired of just being a girlfriend as i am no longer a baby ( I am 32). two of my younger sisters are married with kids so you may know how i feel.
I dont want to come across as desperate but I need direction in my life. I'm looking for a man who is ready for serious commitment. He is 34 and very comfortable and will always make me call his mum and his sisters thereby giving me clues but he is yet to say anything officially and I have other men who i have kept on a long thing because of him but my friends are telling me that he is not serious hence his delay in defining the relationship.
I cant keep doing this. I will clock 33 in a few months and I don't even have a ring yet he acts like he owns me, You need to see him raking if I smile or receive compliment from other men. I want a serious commitment and I dont have time. And when I say serious, I mean marriage and babies. So, at what point should I ask him if he wants the same without scaring him off? How do I even bring it up without sounding desperate, marriage or baby crazy? as in a subtle way or do I go straight up?
Would love to hear from single and married couples on the blog - when did the topic of marriage first come up in your relationship during your single days? Please help a sister out before I ruin this.
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